My red flag is a man who talks too much — Bolade Adeshina
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| Bolade Adeshina (Nollywood Actress) |
In a private chat with Potpourri, she shared strong opinions based on her own life. She said that true love is wonderful when your partner is serious and puts in effort, noting that her past experiences have shaped how she feels. When asked about what she dislikes most in men, the actress said her biggest "red flag" is a man who talks too much or shares things that should be kept private.
“My ultimate dream as a woman is to have a happy home with children. My red flag is when a man talks too much and disclose what it is unnecessary
She added that she believes a woman can stay with a man if he truly wants to be with her. While she feels for single mothers and understands that life doesn't always go to plan, she holds traditional views on marriage and believes a wife should let her husband lead.
The actress also shared that she has wanted to act since she was a child. She was inspired by famous stars like Funke Akindele, Sola Sobowale, and Bukky Wright, but it was Ronke Odusanya who finally convinced her she could be a success on screen.
When talking about success in show business, the actress said that while good looks can help you get started, you need talent to stay successful. She insisted that she will always value talent more than looks, because anyone can buy beauty with money, but skill and hard work are what really make a career last. She also told people who want to be actors to respect themselves and others, keep practicing their craft, and stay prayerful.
