VJ Adams criticises men’s ‘priorities’ in partner selection

Media personality VJ Adams has ignited a new discussion about men’s dating standards with a frank message aimed at young blokes.

In a video shared on his Instagram page on the 19th of May, 2025, the entertainer criticised the superficial criteria some men use when choosing partners, comparing it to the more sensible approach women often take.

“How far, young boys ehn. How is it that up until now, you people still don’t have sense? Don’t worry I will help you, that’s why I’m here,” he said.

“Look at your female friends, you see when they’re discussing among themselves and one of them introduces the new man she met. The first thing they do is ask what he does for work. And if they ask for his picture, is just to make sure that the man hasn’t toasted them before”